http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/28/booming/when-theyre-grown-the-real-pain-begins.html?src=me&ref=general&_r=0
- "Never want more for your children than they want for themselves"
- "Listen to their problems and sympathize with them" try not to solve their problems for them unless asked.
- Try to not let their problems become your problems, otherwise they won't want to tell you about their problems for fearing it would become your problems.
- “Don’t hope for anything.”
- "keep your mouth shut and your arms open"
